Unity in Diversity: Valuing Age and Experience


In contemporary society, there exists a perception among the younger generation that the elderly are dispensable and lack significance. This stands in contrast to historical norms, where elders were revered for their wisdom and sought after for guidance, receiving support from the community. It’s essential to recognize that today’s older generation once occupied the role of youth and actively contributed to shaping our modern world. They played a pivotal role in the development and manufacturing of the electronic devices that many young people now appreciate.

Many of the Elderly of today were champions of civil rights, visionaries, and grassroots activists fought for the freedoms and rights enjoyed by people today. Their unwavering dedication and sacrifice significantly contributed to creating a better world. Their legacy paved the way for those who continue to champion equality and human dignity.

“Despite their tireless efforts, some refer to them as ‘boomers’ and view them as an additional burden on our government and a segment of today’s younger generation. However, it’s essential to recognize that they still have much to contribute. Their wealth of wisdom, acquired through years of experience, provides valuable insights into the past and upholds values that appear scarce in our current era.

Ageism is a pervasive issue that unfairly diminishes individuals based on their age, whether they are elders or children. Regardless of their life stage, everyone deserves equal respect, just as those in their prime working years do. Life itself is precious and should be cherished by all of us. Basic respect is a fundamental right for every human being. Unfortunately, as a species, we still have progress to make in terms of respecting life and valuing each individual. Often, we find ourselves entangled in tribalism, an ‘us vs. them’ mentality, and separatism. However, there is hope that one day we will recognize our shared humanity, transcending differences in beliefs to unite and strengthen our collective race.

In our journey through life, let us recognize that age should never be a barrier to respect. Whether young or old, each person contributes to the rich tapestry of human experience. As we navigate our existence, let’s embrace unity over division, understanding over prejudice, and compassion over judgment. Together, we can build a world where every individual’s worth is celebrated, regardless of their place on life’s timeline.

Thought of the Day 2/7/2014


016Turn and look into the mirror, see yourself for who and what you are. Stop being who and what others expect you to be and be who you really are. Leave the masquerade and join in on the reality of who you were destined to truly be.

Ray Barbier

Who and what we truly are


002Why do we allow the opinions of others to effect our self-image, emotions and outlook on life. We tend to seek acceptance and reassurance from others, we learned this behavior as children. We need to see that though opinions of others have meaning and some weight, that our own opinions are just as important if not more so when it comes to our self. Others do not know you as you know yourself and they usually judge you on preconceived notions based on just one if not a few encounters they had with you. They don’t know your heart or mind, they have little fact or evidence to support their impression of your personality.

Even those that have known you for years still may not truly know who you are truly. Sometimes we do not even know ourselves as good as we should. We tend to be like a chameleon and change with the crowd and circumstances around us to blend in. We try to blend in and we rarely show our true selves out of fear of not being accepted or loved. The problem with being a chameleon or being a person who tries to fit in by putting on a mask is that we are never accepted or loved for who we are. Thus we are not accepted or loved at all, for they love the part we play not for who and what we are.

We try to kid ourselves they love us and accept us even though they see a disguise not our true image. But deep inside we will know is all a lie and falsehood. So it is far better to be loved and accepted by a few as who and what we truly are then to be loved and accepted by many for who we are not.

Be yourself, Believe in yourself and Be true to yourself. Worry not of the opinions of others and love yourself for who you are.

Ray Barbier