A good friend of mine recently suffered a from a broken heart and that is something very devastating to have to live through. We all have to deal with having our heart broken from time to time in life and some are worse than others. The thing is even though your heart has been broken it is still there and still is full of love though the pain you feel is blocking the way. Do not let one bad apple in the barrel keep you from tasting the others. To find someone who loves you the way you want and the way you are willing to love them back is sometimes a long and even painful path at times.
To quote a great author “ It is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all” and I believe that is true. I myself rather be loved and love others than to be lonely and never know the grandness of love no matter how short lived or how painful the death of that love is. For the pain will eventually pass and usually a warmer and better love comes along in the end. Live life and love the time you have with friends, lovers and potential lovers you meet in life and never expect more from others than you yourself can give or do and all should be good.
If you had fun along the way remember it more than the heartbreak because that is what matters. Remember the good and quickly suffer the pain you have and put it behind you so you can move on and find that one you are looking for. Also remember no person is perfect and neither is any relationship. Perfection is something that is not obtainable , but there are loves that are awesome that one can be blessed with . Love yourself for who and what you are and eventually someone out there will love you the same way.
Take it from someone who has had his heart ripped to shreds a few times in life and broken quite a few. Love is worth all the heartbreaks because eventually you will find the one that will make all those heartaches disappear.
May god bless you and bring you love
R. Barbier
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thanks ray very thoughtful of you and very well said i have chosen to let the lord take care of jerry as he wishes i cant believe that i always seem to get the sour apples in my life lots of men in my life just want to use me because im so tender hearted and trusting toward others but still ray you where the only one that didnt treat me like a piece of shit you treated me as if i was a real person and you loved me no matter what i looked like on the outside whats on the inside really mattered to you my personality and what i felt in my heart for you was what really mattered i love you ray and i hope to see you very soon i really miss you please keep in touch i love your blogs and want to hear more love you lisa