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I embrace the tender heart within me and accept that which makes me who and what I am.

It is amazing how there is a tender side to everyone if they allow it to show. How we tend to hide that side out of fear, the fear of either being hurt by others or being labeled as someone who is a sissy or too nice for their own good. Being macho, tough and/or cold never gets anyone anywhere but alone and unhappy. For you should be that tender-hearted person god made you be, this does not mean to allow others to walk on you it means simply to forgive those that do and side step those that may. Forgiveness and acceptance of each other and our shortcomings is what Jesus tried to teach us, turn the other cheek and to love even thy enemy. We cannot be a hurtful and hateful person without suffering many pains and losses due to our lack of compassion and love. I rather suffer as a person of love and compassion than to suffer for being hateful and bringing suffering to others. Think what you may of me, my philosophy and the way I view this world we live in, I am what am and I cannot be anything other than which I was born to be. When I tried to be what others expected me to be I suffered with unhappiness, anger and sometimes depression, I choose to be me and be happy as I am than to worry about the opinions of others. If someone is not a positive influence on me I simply avoid them and wish them the best and then seek out the more positive people around me. When anger does strike me I let it out and then put it out so to move on instead of hanging on to the negativity it brings. I embrace the tender heart within me and accept that which makes me who and what I am. I accept and embrace what makes those I meet who and what they are as well. It is the differences between us that make us such a wondrous and unique species.

May peace and compassion be your guides through life.
Raymond Barbier

There is a darkness

Light Expelling Darkness, by James Gillray. Pu...

There is a darkness that hides within all of us deep within the recesses of our minds. It lurks in the shadows hiding from the light only to spring out to cause despair or fright. Some call it depression and anger others call it your dark side. Either way it comes out to play when things seem too good to be true to humble you and bring you back to reality.  This darker side of yourself is fueled by your fears, doubts and even your pride.

To have light one must have darkness and to have happiness there must be sadness.The ratio of the mix is the one thing you can control allong with how much power you give to them. There is darkness in every one of us if we want to face it or not. It is part of the human condition and will be with us as long as humans exist. Luckily there is the thing of good and light with each of us also. Things such as love,compassion, understanding and charity that balances it out and can keep the darkness in check.

Enough of my rambling for now
R. Barbier